Sunday, December 8, 2019

Horcrux or Holy


Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. Colossians 3:2

So we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen, since what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. 2 Corinthians 4:18

In the “tales of” Harry Potter, horcruxes become a foundational thread. As it is told, when one murders another accompanied by a curse, the piece of the murder’s soul is transferred into an inanimate object. The object is chosen as being valuable to the murderer; ironically, more valuable that a human life. This everyday object, while maintaining its original form and function, now holds the secret of the soul. Only the original soul, now eternally fused with an object of choice, knows of the union. By mere possession thrust into it’s being, the object is now a horcrux. Each victim death becomes another fusion between earthly and eternity. Therefore, the death of the object, becomes the death of a soul. Such an act, as it’s told, it is the darkest of all acts. Horcruxes are formed for purpose of soul immortality. Ultimate deception is it’s defense. in reality, since all earth will pass away, including the item, choosing earthen as immortality is the greatest deception.

Far less than the extreme of murder and soul fractures, is a more common union of earthly and eternal. In reality, and by the thousands, horcruxes of unholy unions abound. Yet, it doesn’t take murder to form such a horcrux of union; it’s far simpler and more dangerous. We simply choose an object to be our intimacy. Everyday objects that we hold…and take hold of us (our hearts and minds; by idolatry, our souls). We attach ourselves so intimately with the inanimate, that loss of earthly things causes us to die a thousand deaths. Items hold memories, not souls. When an object is lost or destroyed, the reminder is gone but the memory lives on. Con-fusion of the two, keeps us trapped inside a doomed fate.

When we scatter our souls into idols with inanimate union of relationship-as if they breathed from our very lungs-we place faith in the temporal as if it is eternal. Thereby, we miss the extraordinary resurrected life of a healed, though scarred, soul in the unseen. The concern is not sentimental remembering. The concern is not grieving. The concern is intimate union with the inanimate. Grieving has healing, even if over a lifetime; obsession is an open wound that refuses closure. Grieving loss of an object is natural, understandable and not to be dismissed. Please don’t misunderstand: there are things of great value, especially emotionally. A wedding band; a father’s watch; a mother’s bible; a child’s drawing. A billion other items that are irreplaceable and deeply missed when gone. A theft, fire or accident cuts deep when such are lost. There is no denial of painful grieving to be experienced with great sadness. The deeper, unseen destruction is when the object inhabits our obsessions to the point where we expect the eternal from the temporal.

Lord of the Rings. Indiana Jones and the Lost Ark. Walmart at Christmastime. None of us are exempt, but each of us are of choice. Parent/child relationships are destroyed over a phone. Marriages are destroyed over holiday trinkets or a magazine images. Siblings are destroyed over estate wills. Friendships are destroyed over video games. Soul unions murdered over an obsession, ornament or object. The most common of horcrux: that which we value over human life. All because we choose to fix our eyes on earthly over eternity. We choose to miss moments present by fixating on memories past. We choose to stay stuck in the hospitals with wounds rather than accept the freedom of healing. No, it’s not as simple as a change of mind that heals all. However, we do have a choice in our dwelling and with whom we dwell.

There will always be a lifetime of grieving and loss. The greatest acceptance is to embrace death; then let death die rather than live on. What, where, and who we obsess over, and dwell with, will either be our holy or our horcrux. That which you possess or that which possess you.